|so, in case i didnt make the colours clear enough or youre unfamiliar with the flag, im coming out as aromantic! last night at like midnight i had just been thinking about romance and stuff, and i realised oh dang, i might be aro! cause every single thing i think of when i think of like, being happily married, could easily be substituted for like. a really cuddly dog, or a really close friend, and i had a preconceived idea of what being aromantic was about (because i really, really love consuming media about romance i just dont like the idea of it happening to Me) and i thought my need for affection and physical contact was a need for romance but its just me wanting to be hugged by anyone and everyone. anyway. im aromantic, and im proud of it!